Time to Vent

OK, no one is picking up there phone so I have no one to vent to so I am writing on my blog! I just have to say I love being a Navy wife and am so proud and love my husband very much..but these government offices are getting on my last nerve! First it takes them it seems like a month to do anything or get anything done! Or they lose the paper work and blame it on you and then make you fill it out again! Then when I the wife call to see if they are processing the paper work this time to keep on top of it, they talk to me like I'm stupid and tell me that my husband has to be the one who calls for any information! I must say this makes me feel like I don't matter at all, I'm his wife why can't I know about information that is about BOTH of us not just him? Aaron has never been the one to be very organized so I have always been the one to fill out important papers make important phone calls make sure things are going right and now i can't it is driving me crazy! Aaron sometime takes forever to do things so that just makes it worse. i just hate when I call an office hoping they will help me or at lest treat me with respect..and they treat me like I'm stupid and tell me that my husband is the only one who can have information...i guess God is up there laughing in his loving way right now because he is trying to teach me that now i can't take care of everything because I really can't take care of anything is a way to take some of the stress away from me and knowing that He will take care of it in his time not mine..Sigh...This is very hard but I think I just need to relax whatever that means, lol ;)